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November 02, 2006
Rest well, Scotty Bell
In January 2005, Mr Raitte’s brother was involved in a serious car accident and never regained consciousness. Last week, peace finally claimed him. It’s impossible not to feel some sense of relief that is he no longer trapped in the awful limbo of coma, but so hard to think of his five-year-old son, now fatherless. We’re in Canada this week, saying our farewells.
Posted by Amelia at November 2, 2006 04:01 PM
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I send my deepest condolences to your family.
Posted by: Saun at November 2, 2006 04:15 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Leslie at November 2, 2006 04:16 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: laura b at November 2, 2006 04:22 PM
My thoughts are with you all.
Posted by: Carol at November 2, 2006 04:33 PM
Anna, what can I say? I can only wish you and your husband my warmest wishes and heartfelt sympathy. I have not had the same tragedy in my life, but when I read your posting I felt shock and sympathy. I can only wish you both well, and hope you are coping.
Posted by: Vanessa at November 2, 2006 05:01 PM
Best wishes to all.
Posted by: B. at November 2, 2006 05:08 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that. Wishing you all peace.
Posted by: Jen at November 2, 2006 06:03 PM
so sorry to hear of your family's loss. what a painful time the last two years must have been.
Posted by: connie at November 2, 2006 06:43 PM
I offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family. May Scott rest in peace.
Posted by: Christina at November 2, 2006 07:11 PM
I'm so sorry, Anna. What a sad year this has been for you. All my love.
Posted by: Ashley at November 2, 2006 07:26 PM
Oh, I am so sorry . . .
Posted by: --Deb at November 2, 2006 07:27 PM
I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers will be with the family.
Posted by: Lisak at November 2, 2006 07:58 PM
I often read but havent posted but I felt i had to say I am thinking of you and your family take care all xxxxxx
Posted by: cairi at November 2, 2006 09:11 PM
I am so very sorry for you all.
Posted by: Erica at November 2, 2006 09:11 PM
Sorry to hear such sad news. I'm thinking good thoughts for you and your family.
Posted by: Dava at November 2, 2006 09:21 PM
Oh my god how awful, I'm so sorry. It's not a bad thing to be aware of the relief, of course, and whatever we believe it is usually that the person who dies is free of suffering at least. My heart goes out to you, Mr Raitte, that little boy and all of your family.
Posted by: Kitty Jimjams at November 2, 2006 09:36 PM
I very sorry to hear of your family's loss. I hope you and Mr. Raitte find comfort in the family still here. Be sure to tell Scott's son what a wonderful dad he had.
Posted by: Sarahfish at November 2, 2006 09:55 PM
Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Such a difficult thing to bear, but it sounds like he is definitely in a better place.
Posted by: Wanda at November 2, 2006 10:02 PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
I really like the phrase "peace claimed him" -- it's quite thoughtful.
Posted by: Ann at November 2, 2006 10:45 PM
Peace and comfort to you all. Special hugs to your nephew, and may he remember his father well and fondly.
Posted by: Carrie at November 2, 2006 10:47 PM
i don't know what to say. i feel for you both and for his son. i definitely know what he is going through.
sending much love.
Posted by: jacqueline at November 2, 2006 11:05 PM
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by: lorinda at November 2, 2006 11:05 PM
My sincere sympathies to you and the family - take good care.
Posted by: Terry at November 2, 2006 11:16 PM
I am so sorry for your family's loss.
Posted by: Alesia at November 2, 2006 11:21 PM
Please accept my deepest condolensces to you and your family.
MAy God bless you and keep you during this trying time.
Posted by: knittingnurse at November 2, 2006 11:22 PM
My condolences. What a truly tragic situation.
Posted by: carole at November 2, 2006 11:27 PM
Oh, I'm so sorry. I want to offer my deepest condolences to you all, especially your nephew. Take care.
Posted by: Nonnahs at November 2, 2006 11:34 PM
Oh my goodness, Anna. I am so sorry. Please send my deepest condolences to your husband. I lost my brother 5 years ago, and it is a terrible, terrible thing. I hope that with the passing of time, he will be able to remember the happy things. For me, the horror of it all was what I had to deal with first, but after the years have passed, I no longer remember what was difficult or awful at the end and Sam has returned to being the restored person of my memory, in my memory. May the same happen for both of you. Love to you all, J.
Posted by: Julia at November 2, 2006 11:39 PM
oh anna, i'm so sorry to read about your family's loss. i'm sure it has been a tough 2 years. i hope your brother-in-law has gotten the peace he deserves. many blessings to you all, especially to your little nephew.
Posted by: jody at November 2, 2006 11:56 PM
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Janice at November 3, 2006 12:02 AM
My deepest sympathies to you, your husband, and the entire family.
Posted by: Rose at November 3, 2006 12:06 AM
I'm so sorry for your family's loss Anna.
Posted by: Leah at November 3, 2006 12:14 AM
Best wishes to you and yours.
Posted by: Daphne at November 3, 2006 12:28 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Posted by: bernie at November 3, 2006 12:31 AM
So sorry...
Posted by: Alexis at November 3, 2006 01:15 AM
I'm so sorry to hear you've lost a loved one. I'm wishing the Raitte family all the best.
Posted by: rachel at November 3, 2006 01:28 AM
Safe travels, and much love and prayers to you and your family.
Posted by: Mary-Heather at November 3, 2006 01:36 AM
Oh, Anna, very sad to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Posted by: Ann in Nashville at November 3, 2006 01:56 AM
I'm sending vibes of comfort and peace to you and yours Anna.
Posted by: Debi at November 3, 2006 02:03 AM
Dearest Anna, my thoughts are with you and yours. Not to mention that poor little boy. I'm lighting a candle now.
Posted by: Leisl at November 3, 2006 02:26 AM
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss - my thoughts and prayers are with your family, and especially the little one.
Posted by: Ruth at November 3, 2006 02:47 AM
What a terrible situation. My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: LaurieM at November 3, 2006 03:03 AM
oh my. i hope you feel much peace. i think he is feeling peace now and i hope your husband will too with time. you and your family will always be there for your nephew to help him remember his father.
Posted by: lena at November 3, 2006 03:09 AM
I'm so sorry Anna, I'm sending you and your family hugs.
Posted by: yahaira at November 3, 2006 03:54 AM
So sorry for your loss, Anna.
Posted by: Jenny at November 3, 2006 04:48 AM
My condolences to you and your husband's family.
Posted by: Robin at November 3, 2006 07:49 AM
my most sincere condoleances and hopes for greater peace for you and your family.
Posted by: stinkerbell at November 3, 2006 08:06 AM
Such sad news. My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Mary at November 3, 2006 08:49 AM
oh anna, i'm so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: kris at November 3, 2006 11:26 AM
*Hugs*
Posted by: yuvee at November 3, 2006 12:52 PM
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Amber at November 3, 2006 01:24 PM
Oh Anna, I'm so very sorry. Lots of love to you and your family.
Posted by: parikha at November 3, 2006 01:36 PM
I'm so, so sorry Anna.
My sister lost her husband to a motorcycle accident this past June. He left behind she and their two children.. a son, 5 and a daughter who turned 1 the week following his death, so I can understand the pain.
Hang in there. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, most especially the little one.
Posted by: Carla at November 3, 2006 02:13 PM
Oh Anna - I am so so sorry for your loss - what a dreadful situation but as you say at least a little relief can be felt. Give that little boy loads of cuddles from us all xxxxx
Posted by: Becky at November 3, 2006 02:46 PM
Thinking of you and your family.
Posted by: allison at November 3, 2006 02:47 PM
Anna - I am terribly terribly sorry. However the gathering of family - and indeed, the woefully-sweet relief of finally knowing that they don't have to wake up every morning and wonder "will today be the day?" - will certainly go a long way to ease their tremendous loss.
...and can I say that in an utterly bizarre way it is extremely wonderful and comforting and exciting in and of itself to know that we are on the same large continent at the moment??? We might be across a border from each-other this week, but at least we're not across the pond for once!
Posted by: Susan B at November 3, 2006 03:01 PM
My thoughts for you and your family.
Posted by: christine at November 3, 2006 03:28 PM
Sorry for your loss. Wish you and your family the best during this trying time.
Posted by: Liz at November 3, 2006 05:13 PM
my condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: janet d at November 3, 2006 05:24 PM
my deepest condolences to you and the family
(hugs)
Posted by: Janice at November 3, 2006 06:45 PM
It seems funny to say so sorry for your loss, when it seems that you all lost him a while ago, but the finality, the end, is always the end of hoping he will get better, and I have found in my own life that though you think you may have given up hope on something, at the end you find you really haven't. Hope is so integral to all of us moving through this topsy turvy world. So, I Hope you and your family are finding peace and solace with each other..
Posted by: Liz Kalloch at November 3, 2006 06:58 PM
Anna, my heart and sympathies go out to you and your family during this time of grieving. Take good care of one another.
Posted by: nicole at November 3, 2006 07:51 PM
oh, i'm so sorry to hear that.
Posted by: lynette at November 3, 2006 08:27 PM
I'm so very sorry for you and all your family....
Posted by: Esther at November 3, 2006 08:30 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Heartfelt wishes go out to you and your family.
Posted by: Andrea at November 3, 2006 08:35 PM
Terribly sorry for your loss. I normally come to your blog to gawp at your patterns in admiration. Now, I come to commisserate.
I'll light a candle.
Posted by: dodgy at November 3, 2006 09:06 PM
My sympathies to all of the Raitte Family and hopes for safe travels. Would wrap everyone in a soft warm woolen hug if I could.
Posted by: Jan at November 3, 2006 09:21 PM
I'm so so sorry for Mr Raitte and his family.
Posted by: pip at November 4, 2006 12:51 AM
My thought are with your family.
Posted by: Ramona at November 4, 2006 01:41 AM
Dear Anna,
I send my sympathy to you and your family on this loss.
My mother has been in the awful limbo of late Alzheimer's for some time. The way you describe the situation of inextricably combined loss and relief brings some comfort to me. Thank you.
Posted by: Pam at November 4, 2006 11:47 AM
My thoughts are with you. Go well and safely. ~x~
Posted by: Jane in Camden at November 4, 2006 01:17 PM
My thoughts are with you all. I just talked with my brother the other day -- it's been 8 months since his accident and everyday I think about how it could have gone so many other ways. I still can't help but be rendered speechless over the whole thing... We're really just all walking on eggshells, I think.
Posted by: Vicki at November 4, 2006 02:07 PM
Please accept my sincerest condolences.
How terribly sad for your husband,his nephew,your whole family.
Posted by: Emma at November 4, 2006 09:46 PM
My heartfelt condolences to your family. Please take comfort in knowing that those we love are with us always. May peace be with you all.
Posted by: Maria J. at November 4, 2006 10:14 PM
Ah, how sad for everyone, my condolences to you and your family. Such a long, long time to be in a coma.
Posted by: dawn at November 5, 2006 12:59 AM
What a horrid situation - loss and relief mixed in one. Wishing you all peace.
Posted by: lynne s of Oz at November 5, 2006 05:24 AM
I am truly sorry, Anna.
Posted by: Robyn at November 5, 2006 07:41 PM
How very sad; I will be thinking of you and family and sending love.
Posted by: Birdsong at November 6, 2006 02:18 PM
Please pass my condolences along to Mr. Raitte and his family. I am very sorry for the loss.
Posted by: Gina at November 6, 2006 03:41 PM
I am so terribly sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Posted by: Ruth at November 6, 2006 03:50 PM
Ditto. I can't imagine having to go through that.
Posted by: Nik at November 6, 2006 06:58 PM
Oh Anna. This has been a kind of annus horribilis for you, hasn't it? What a sad, sad story. I'm just so sorry.
Posted by: Beth S. at November 6, 2006 08:02 PM
Oh my, so so sad - I wish for you and Mr. Raitte's family so many things. Especially during the holidays, birthdays, anniversaries - when missing a loved one can feel like a physical pain. My condolences and sorrow for your loss.
Posted by: Tina at November 7, 2006 07:39 PM
Sorry to hear about your brother-in-law. I hope everyone is doing okay. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
Posted by: Lisa Gossett at November 7, 2006 08:10 PM
It is difficult to lose a sibling, as you think you will always have each other to remember childhood together. Sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Anonymous at November 7, 2006 11:32 PM